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First Wedding at Wallaringa Farm Wallaringa Farm near Dungog in the Hunter is a real gem. As a celebrant, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing love stories unfold in many beautiful places, but there is something truly special about this place. It has a unique charm that’s hard to find elsewhere. Owned by the lovely […]

MY FIRST ARMIDALE WEDDING: GREAT HOPS BREWERY ⁠When Hanah and Christie first booked me, I had this image in my mind of a classy, upscale affair in the vineyards— you know, the whole big shebang. ⁠Turns out, I completely misread the vibe they were going for. They had this vision of a relaxed, down-to-earth country […]

Do you ever find yourself on the brink of a major event like a wedding, baby naming, or funeral, only to feel like your mouth has transformed into the Sahara Desert? It’s like your tongue’s been superglued to the roof of your mouth, right? If you’re a celebrant, this scenario might hit close to home. […]

Wedding Day Magic at Leaves and Fishes, Hunter Valley Let’s talk about the real magic of your wedding day. One of the most heartfelt pieces of advice I offer my couples is to forget about chasing perfection on your wedding day; it’s overrated. ⁠⁠Sure, we all want to create a remarkable experience for the guests, […]

My Favourite Ceremony Moments at Peppers Creek Chapel & Barrell Room. Peppers Creek Chapel & Barrell Room boasts this wickedly long (aka best) aisle in the Hunter Valley so I met the bride Kylee and her crew out of view at the top of the aisle to impart some last-minute pearls of wisdom like relax, […]

Purple, red and gold wedding colour palette at Circa 1876 wedding venue I have a little secret……My most magnificent weddings tend to be the trickiest to capture in words. It’s a procrastinator’s conundrum, really. I find myself hesitating, paralysed by the fear that my words won’t do justice to the couple’s wonderful wedding. ⁠⁠When I […]

The morning of your wedding sets the tone for the whole day 🎉I often swing by where the bride(s) or groom(s) are getting ready. Ya know, to sign a few papers and make sure everyone’s stress levels are under control. 📝 ⁠⁠Sometimes, it’s like walking into the eye of a storm! 🌪️ When that happens […]

My favourite Hunter Valley Wedding of 2023 was at Dark Horse Vineyard Hands down, my FAVOURITE wedding of 2023! 🎉 I try not to pick favourites, but this one at Dark Horse Vineyard stole the show.⁠⁠My first time at Dark Horse, and WOW – I instantly knew it deserved a prime spot on my ‘Best […]

The Very Hungry Caterpillar is a great Baby Naming Theme On Sunday I had a great time at Finn’s baby naming ceremony at Gillieston Heights Community Centre. It was all themed around The Very Hungry Caterpillar – balloons, cake, the whole shebang! 🎈🍰 Seriously, who doesn’t love that classic book?! 🐛✨⁠ Choosing The Hungry Caterpillar […]

Welcome to our book club shindig! This time around, a bunch of celebrants, including yours truly, delved into the treasure trove that is David Nihill’s Do You Talk Funny? If you’ve dived into the same pages, feel free to spill the tea in the comments. QUICK RECAP: Do You Talk Funny? The book unveils seven […]

Baby Naming Medowie- for a baby who faced a rocky start Non-religious christenings or Baby Naming Ceremonies as they are commonly called are not just about picking a name; they are about giving a high-five to the little champion for overcoming early hurdles. These naming ceremonies for babies who’ve faced a tough start are like […]

Greetings, fellow literary enthusiasts! Welcome to this book club gathering. This month, myself and some other celebrants took on the non-fiction gem, “Love Stories” by Trent Dalton. If you’ve read the book, I encourage you to share your thoughts in the comments below. Whether you’re eager to tackle the discussion questions or simply spill the […]

From Lightening Ridge to Bar Beach Newcastle: A Sunset Elopement by the Sea 🌅 Amber and Danny tracked me down on the Internet. They’re from Lightening Ridge but thought, “Hey, why not have a blast and tie the knot in Newcastle?” They weren’t picky about the date, time or location, so after some chitchat, we […]

BEAUTIFUL BRONTE⁠ I’ve been Facebook friends with Tatum since I was her wedding celebrant at Albion Farm Gardens back in 2019. I’ll happily accept a friend request from any of my clients (but equally won’t be offended if anyone doesn’t reach out in that way). It’s a great way for me to keep up with […]

Celebrant for Life I had the pleasure of marrying Hannah + Charlie back in August 2020, so when they asked me to do their daughter Ella Rose’s baby naming at the Hunter Valley Gardens, I was over the moon. I’m officially their CELEBRANT FOR LIFE now!⁠⁠It is not always possible for grandparents to get involved […]

Hey there, fellow pet lovers! Let me share a heartwarming story from my journey as a celebrant. When I was training to become a wedding celebrant, I was told to steer clear of including pets in ceremonies due to their unpredictable nature and potential for distractions.

But life always has a way of surprising us, doesn’t it? In my very first booking as a celebrant, the couple insisted on having not just one, but all three of their adorable dogs participate in their special day. I found myself at a crossroads. As a celebrant, my role is to guide and facilitate, not to impose my own preferences on couples. So, the dogs got the green light!

Deciding to legally marry before or after the big day This is story of how I got to be part of the most epic Merewether Legals Only Wedding…….. Sometimes a good old ☎️ phone call beats an email! So, this gal named Danika reached out to me, all curious and excited, about my Legals Only […]

Atomic Habits by James Clear book sold over 5 million copies since its launch in 2018! It’s been on the New York Times Best Seller list for over 100 weeks. It has a 5-star rating on Amazon and over 65000 reviews. If you want to improve your habits, it’s hard to miss this book. But does it […]

Love knows no boundaries… but bureaucracy sure does! ??? Being in a cross-cultural marriage is like embarking on a rollercoaster ride through immigration forms and language barriers. ??️ Attending my brother Jack’s Traditional Korean Wedding, I found myself thinking not only about his extraordinary love story but about the crazy challenges that all couples face […]

When we think of funerals, a somber and serious atmosphere often comes to mind. However, there is a growing recognition that humour can play a meaningful role in the grieving process. Humour, when used appropriately, can help alleviate tension, create connections, and offer moments of relief amidst the sadness. Although it may seem unusual to […]

Hey there, bookworms! Welcome to my virtual book club discussion, featuring none other than the delightful masterpiece called Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert! Get ready to dive into this literary gem, and when you’re done, join me in the comments section for some discussions. Feel free to tackle any of the discussion questions or simply […]